The Perfect Gentleman’s Room To Seduce Women
The Perfect Gentleman’s Room : What Does It Look Like?
If you are an apprentice seducer, you may be telling yourself that there are other priorities than taking care of your interior to attract as many women as possible and develop your love life.
Still, it’s the kind of little detail that can make the difference between a budding story or a passionate night and a missed date.
Learn how to show that you are a man of taste when she walks into your apartment and your gentleman’s room .
That moment when you bring a woman to your room
It’s the end of your date with this woman you want to seduce and everything seems to be going for the best.
She laughed at all your jokes , even the less funny ones. She didn’t seem bored and you haven’t seen her looking at her cell phone all evening.
You were able to sexualize the conversation and set up the kino escalation .
You use your favorite girl trap to bring her home :
“ Come on, you can go upstairs for a few minutes. Like that, I’ll introduce you to the cats. “
She accepts.
But all is not yet won.
Just because she agrees to follow you home doesn’t mean she’ll necessarily agree to sleep with you.
Certainly, it’s in the back of her mind and she understood perfectly that your story of cats or the last glass of red wine that you must make her taste at all costs was only a pretext to put her in your bed. .
But she can still be disappointed and turn around and pretend she has to get up early the next morning.
When you invite a woman over to your home , you find yourself alone with her in what is a whole new environment for her.
To make everything work out for you and keep her from feeling uncomfortable , let’s start with the biggest mistakes to avoid.
Before arriving in your seducer room
The reality is simple.
To be able to have sex with her, you will probably bring her to your bed.
And to get to your room, she will have to cross your apartment , or at least change rooms.
To put the odds in your favor, simply start by having a clean and relatively tidy apartment.
Even if you don’t have any special plans to come home with someone this evening , be prepared for any eventuality if you have a date . #Always ready
- We avoid dirty dishes lying around in the sink or everywhere.
- We throw away packaging, bottles, cans, pizza boxes and all the rubbish that has been left on the tables or littered the floor.
- Take the opportunity to go throw your trash.
- We put away all the piles of laundry that have nothing to do in your living room.
- And we’re planning a bottle of wine , just in case.
And if you have time, spend a weekend sorting through papers , stacks of magazines, and throwing out anything you don’t need.
I know how complicated it can be for a single man who works and has a social life to maintain his apartment properly.
But, still try to do the maximum.
To sweep the crumbs off the table, to vacuum up dog or cat hair and to have a super clean bathroom and toilet with paper reserves.
And if you’re really too tight on timing , toss everything in a cupboard and get tidied up later.
Just keep your room spotless with clean sheets for your bed.
PS: Not an OM bed set. This has already earned me a few fails !
So much for what can bother you at first.
But, even if you don’t have super designer furniture or trendy decor, if you manage to keep your interior clean , you will score points.
Most women have a habit of projecting themselves, probing your habits, and wondering what your relationship might be like if it’s committed to you for the long term.
So show him that you are a man of taste , that you know how to take care of your interior or at least that you are able to ensure on the minimum .
I know, it’s not easy. And I don’t always succeed …
But, even if it’s just for one night, you’ll still have a better chance of achieving your goals if you create a pleasant atmosphere in your home.
How to create this atmosphere of seduction and have a room for the perfect gentleman?
An atmosphere conducive to privacy is based on several elements:
The light in the gentleman’s room
This is arguably one of the most important things when it comes to creating an atmosphere conducive to sex.
Reducing the intensity of the light can help you create a bubble of privacy that she will feel good in.
Indeed, when the light decreases, the other senses wake up.
Your partner will be more sensitive to sounds and smells, but also to your kinos .
So, when you bring a woman into your bedroom, avoid turning on the lights on big.
Instead, choose several mood lights.
To create intimate lighting , you have multiple options.
Personally, to stay in my nerdy geek style , I have several copies of the Tetris lamp that I adore.
Not expensive and it always has its small effect.
Then you can always have a chat about Tetris and the geeky little music that goes with it.
Most people in their thirties have known the first generation Game Boy.
And then you can follow up with a conversation about childhood , cartoons, games and all the memories of your time.
We also love this kind of salt stone lamp with its soothing red light.
Otherwise, it’s a bit expensive, but you can also get a set of smart bulbs that you can vary the color of from your smartphone using a mobile app.
In short, it’s up to you.
Rummage around in stores or on the internet to find what suits you best.
To find lamps and lights that create soft light and that match your tastes and your personality.
You can also opt for scented candles to complement your lighting.
In addition, they will spread a pleasant scent throughout the room.
And for the smell, if you like it, you can also burn an incense stick or get yourself an essential oil diffuser .
It really is based on your taste and what you like.
Now let’s move on to music.
Music to create an atmosphere conducive to sex
Obviously, music can also help you get closer to the woman you want to sleep with.
But, the music, here too, is above all a question of taste.
It is very difficult for us to give you advice.
We’ll just tell you to stay away from hardcore rap, metal, or full-blown techno.
Unless it really matches the style of your target.
Instead, favor soft music : R & B, rock ballads, jazz or zen music.
But the most important thing is to find the music that pleases her and that will relax her to put her in a state of mind conducive to intimacy.
During the date, be sure to get her talking about her musical tastes in the conversation .
It can also be a great topic to sexualize the conversation :
“ And you, do you like to make love while listening to what kind of music?” What, you haven’t made your sex playlist yet? “
It’s up to you to create your own!
For the equipment, you can invest in a Bluetooth speaker that you can control from your smartphone.
There are some that are very decorative for a very reasonable budget .
If you are a purist, opt for a vinyl turntable and its little retro effect.
And it’s always nice to show a woman your record collection.
Last thing, don’t make the sound too loud.
You don’t want sound to take precedence over your conversation.
Choosing the right bed for a perfect seductive gentleman’s bedroom
The ideal is of course to have a double bed to make you comfortable.
For the mattress, it’s up to you to see if you prefer a flexible model or a little firmer.
But, anyway, don’t make this purchase lightly. Choosing a good mattress is a long-term investment.
This will allow you to sleep well , take care of your back, but also spend hot nights of sex with your conquests.
So, don’t hesitate to pay the price and forget about the Ikea sofa bed if you can.
Anything else, whether in your living room or in your bedroom, always keep a throw on hand.
Most women like this kind of detail .
In your room, if she is cold, she might not dare to slip into your bed from the start, so as not to appear to be an easy girl.
With a plaid, she will be more comfortable and more relaxed.
The decoration and accessories to create a bubble of intimacy with a woman
Also bet on fabrics with beautiful curtains, rugs and cushions.
But, more generally, what is important is that your apartment in general and your room in particular reflect your universe .
When she comes back to your room, she must quickly get an idea of who you are.
As I told you, in my personal case, I’m more of an intellectual geek seducer.
So in my living room I have my old gray Game Boy , a Master System, and a Nintendo 64.
Some orchids and cacti.
And, in my room, in addition to my Tetris lamps, there are my libraries with books on all kinds of themes, my Legos and Playmobil collections , a Serge Gainsbourg figurine statuette, my vinyl turntable with the records and a superhero painting with Double Face in Batman.
Because I actually prefer super villains rather than superheroes.
Then, my fighting fish in a bowl and a Leopard gecko in a small vivarium.
Well, I admit that to seduce, it’s not necessarily the best idea in the world to have reptiles next to your bed … but it makes good conversation topics when I bring girls back to my bachelor apartment!
It’s up to you to find your style.
Think of plants, picture frames and other wall clocks.
If you are a handyman and resourceful (which I am not yet), do not hesitate to type “do it yourself” in Google, you will find plenty of ways to give character to your interior at a lower cost.
Some photos of seducer room
Conclusion
Clearly, to put the odds on your side with women , learn to make your bedroom a bubble of intimacy.
It’s up to you to create an intimate atmosphere with soft light , music that will awaken your senses as well as a pleasant smell.
And if your bedroom is a place where she feels comfortable, then it will be much more open to sleep with you.
Note that your interior is a part of you.
You need to make it a place where you feel good and where women can better understand who you are.
A place that looks like you.
But, don’t go too fast and remember it’s a bit like your dress style.
It takes time to develop it . And a little money to achieve the result you want.
Last detail for the fateful moment: once you are in your room, remember to keep your condoms handy.
And you, has your room already played tricks on you when it comes to concluding? How did you personalize your interior?
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