How to Dress Well to Seduce at the Office?
Harvey Specter in Suits , Don Draper in Mad Men or Patrick Jane in the Mentalist … If you are still looking for the common point between these 3 characters, it is that they are always dressed to the nines to go to work… and that they seduce all the women on their way.
If you too want to dress well in the office, develop your style and attract all the attention of your female colleagues in the morning in front of the coffee machine, but you are not sure how to go about it, this article is made for you.
Let’s go for all our tips for dressing well and seducing in the office.
Why do you have to dress well to go to the office?
it is quite possible to meet in a place where you do not expect to find a woman you like at all.
In the office, for example.
Here are some figures on the subject according to a recent Opinion Way survey :
- 25% of people have already fallen in love at their workplace;
- 35% of people spend a good part of their lives locked up in the office;
- 45% of people would be ready to have an affair with a work colleague;
- For 60% of men, the office is a place to flirt in its own right.
Small warning: be careful, if you are part of the “ no flirting in office“ team and you prefer to meet people anywhere other than at the office to avoid confusion, I fully support you.
Seduction in the office obeys slightly different rules and in particular that of discretion to avoid attracting the jealousy of each other.
Likewise, if things were to go wrong, you must be able to put aside the emotional aspect to prevent your work from suffering from your romantic setbacks.
If despite everything, there is this news in the HR department that you like and that you want to get started, we invite you to read this article which details all the best tips to manage to seduce at the office .
But back to our sheep to answer the question that you all ask yourselves: how to adopt the right look at the office?
Dress well in the office: adopt the style of your colleagues
For starters, you’re probably not going to dress the same way if you work in a bank, a law firm, or an internet marketing agency.
You are also not going to dress the same if you are in direct contact with customers or if you only see your colleagues.
So to get started, pay attention to how the people who work with you dress to “stick” well to the atmosphere of your office.
Attention, I am not telling you to look like a sad photocopy . I’m just saying there’s no point breaking out your navy blue suit if everyone else is showing up in jeans and a t-shirt.
You would come across as an arrogant person who feels superior to others. The reverse is also true.
If you are a bank employee and all your colleagues are in suits and ties, adopt the dress style of the club and avoid playing it as a dilettante by arriving in jeans / sneakers.
In short, it’s like in seduction, you have to know how to calibrate and adopt the codes of your environment.
It is by respecting the codes that people in general and the women you want to seduce in particular will notice the little touch of fantasy that you will bring to your outfit and that will make all the difference.
If your company dress code is more classy, you should wear a shirt.
We are now going to give you some valuable tips for choosing the right shirt.
How to choose a shirt to dress well and seduce in the office?
Indeed, if you work in an office , the shirt will often be the basis of your outfit.
It is the essential element of masculine elegance.
It can be dressed up or a little more casual depending on the atmosphere in your business.
Choosing the right one depends on your budget.
In my opinion, the ideal is still made -to-measure.
And when looking for made-to-measure, the objective is to find the best value for money.
Even if you dress in classic brands of men’s ready-to-wear , pay attention to the material, the collar which must remain rigid and the cuffs which must retain a nice roundness.
And see if you like it and if it is comfortable to wear.
Now let’s move on to the jacket.
How to choose a blazer to flirt with in the office?
Now that you know how to choose a shirt, you will have to consider choosing a blazer.
For those who don’t know exactly what it is, the blazer is a men’s double-breasted jacket that originated as the uniform of sailors in the British military fleet.
But the modern blazer can simply be likened to a classic suit jacket.
To choose well, the first thing is to orient yourself towards a material that will be adapted to the temperature.
Choose flannel blazers for winter and cotton for fall or spring.
For the summer, opt for a light and breathable material that will allow you not to be too hot like linen.
Do not forget. The advantage of the blazer is that it can go with all looks.
It’s not just for suits and you can also wear it with jeans and sneakers.
Here are the little things you need to look at before choosing your jacket model:
- The number of buttons: models with 1 or 2 buttons are often the easiest to wear
- The cut: a well-cut blazer should fall straight and just at the shoulder.
The slightest imperfection on the shoulders will ruin your look.
Likewise, if your jacket has creases in the back, don’t look: it’s badly adjusted.
For the color, if you’re not sure where to start, get gray which will be versatile to match a lot of outfits.
Also take black shoes. So you won’t take any risks.
Afterwards, if your company (and fortunately like mine) is a little more flexible in terms of clothing, you don’t necessarily need a jacket or a shirt or to wear a suit every day.
You can dress however you want. But that’s no reason to leave your good taste in the locker room.
Here are some tips to get to know you well and choose your clothes well in all circumstances.
It’s time to assert your style !
How to choose your clothes according to your morphology?
This is the key.
If you are rather small, opt for close-fitting outfits.
For example, a slim fit for your pants and a slim fit for the top.
Don’t hesitate to ask for alterations to the waist if you feel there is a need.
If you are taller, you have more options available to you.
It is up to you to be able to express your personality.
On the other hand, avoid slim pants that will further lengthen your silhouette.
If you are rather muscular or imposing, avoid overdoing it with tight t-shirts.
Opt instead for a straight cut that will be more subtle to highlight your physique.
And if you are thin, the challenge will be to flesh out your figure and give it volume.
You can therefore choose, for example, chunky knit sweaters. But keep a cut close to the body.
Otherwise, you risk floating in your clothes and this will only reinforce the impression of thinness.
In short, find the style that suits you best and learn how to show off .
And the colors in all this?
How to match the color of your clothes to dress well?
You probably want to redo your wardrobe, but you are not sure how to go about matching colors without sinking into ridicule?
We will help you see it more clearly.
Because it is by learning to combine colors that you will really be able to develop your style.
Overall, monochromatic outfits lack flavor . So if you want to stand out and attract the attention of the women you want to seduce, you will have to learn to find the right combinations.
If you’re just starting out, buy the colors that are easiest to match: black, white, gray, brown, and navy blue.
You can then make associations from these pieces taking into account your skin tone and hair color.
If you have fair skin, opt for pastel colors, pale pink or sky blue.
If you have rather dark skin and dark hair, you can choose bright colors like red, yellow, orange or royal blue.
You now know the basics for matching the different pieces of your outfit with a wide color palette.
Bonus tips: learn to dress with class
The best advice we can give you for dressing in style is to do some research.
Working on your look is like seducing, you can learn it!
So take the time to study the subject.
Flip through men’s magazines. Tear out the page when a look appeals to you and you think you could try adopting the same one for yourself.
Make tables of looks with a bit of all styles: from the classiest to the most casual.
Then don’t be afraid to hit the shops and try.
Snoop, search and observe. Take an interest in cuts and materials without preconceptions.
Over time, you’ll learn how to choose a pair of sneakers, wear a winter coat, or choose the right t-shirt for a first date .
Conclusion
Whether in the office or elsewhere, if you want to be able to seduce the women you like, you must learn to be elegant and develop your own style.
Fortunately, even the “everyday suit” look allows many variations so that everyone can find their account and add their own little personal touch.
At first, start out with a navy or gray suit, white shirt and black shoes.
And little by little, as you progress in building your look, you will be able to adopt more fantasy in terms of colors, materials, cuts and everything else.
If your business is a little more casual, learn to take advantage of your body type and color combinations to avoid bad taste and show off your originality and personality.
how did you go to work this morning?