5 tips for dating a porn actress

Master Gentleman
6 min readNov 5, 2021

Sleeping and dating a pornstar is a fantasy of many men.

But going from fantasy to reality is not that easy …

Very often, porn actresses date men who work in the porn industry.

Indeed, they are the guys best placed to understand the particular situation of these women.

So other than if you are an actor, director or porn producer, you are unlikely to pair up with an porn actress.

Despite everything, it is possible that fate knocks on your door and makes your fantasy come true …

Discover here 5 tips for dating a porn actress.

But before you discover these 5 tips, you are probably wondering how to meet a pornstar.

Because yes, it is unlikely that you will meet a porn star while going to buy your bread.

Where to meet a porn star?

The most obvious place to meet a porn star is to go to porn conventions.

You will certainly meet them at this kind of event, but succeeding in seducing a pornstar in this context is very complicated …

She’s here for work, not to find a guy.

Especially since you will be lost among the mass of guys who want to fuck her.

Another way to meet a hot actress is to go to places she also frequents.

If you follow a porn star on social networks, you will be able to notice the places in which she goes (bar, restaurant…), and also frequent them.

Okay though, be really careful if you use this technique to meet her.

If you are lucky and come across your favorite pornstar in the places they frequent, don’t tell them you know about their dating habits …

In addition to being super creepy, it’s on the verge of harassment …
(that is clearly the kind of techniques found in the “miscellaneous” section, it’s scary … AVOID)

Another way to meet is to go to libertine clubs.

Most porn actresses are libertines (not all of them, but hey, they have a greater attraction than the average woman for these places).

So inevitably, you are more likely to meet a pornstar in a swingers club, rather than at Wallmart …

The truth is, meeting a pornstar is mostly luck.

But with a little luck, you might be able to meet and sleep with a pornstar thanks to Tinder!

Now that you know how to meet a pornstar, it’s time for you to check out the 5 tips for dating a pornstar.

1 / Don’t remind Her of her job

This first tip is essential if you want to have any chance of dating a pornstar.

Make sure you make as little reference to her profession as possible !

She doesn’t have to feel that you want to seduce her because of her “original” work (even if deep down that’s what you really want).

Because if she has that feeling, it’s Game Over. You’ll be the 5,000th guy to try and hit on her, just because she’s such a hot actress .

So especially at the start of your meeting, don’t tell her about her movies or ask her about behind the scenes in porn.

Don’t be too curious about her job, because it might upset her. “One more”, “all the same”.

Show that you are open-minded anyway, and that porn and sex are not taboo subjects for you at all .

But don’t start asking her if the actresses are faking during the shoots…

If she tells you about it herself, all the better! Discuss it with her.

But flirt with her without voluntarily initiating discussions about her profession.

2 / see her as she is: a normal girl

Yes, a pornstar has made her body her work tool.

And yes she uses her ass to make money, like the cashier her hands and her back, like the garbage collectors their arms.

But all this does not prevent an X actress from being a normal girl.

She too has emotions, dreams, passions, hobbies …

It’s not just a sex object, it’s a woman.

A porn actress needs to be reassured about her condition as a human being. (much like Julia Roberts in Pretty Woman )

She doesn’t want to be seen in her boyfriend’s eyes as a simple famous sex toy.

So if you want to date a pornstar, highlight her humor, intelligence and creativity.

Also take an interest in her passions and her hobbies.

In short, have captivating conversation topics like with other women.

3 / don’t be a fanboy

It almost never happens that a fan dates a star.

Yes, in Hollywood, some actresses date strangers to the general public.

But the vast majority of these men are not fans.

Very often they work in the same environment, as director, cameraman, assistant director, producer …

Jessica Alba for example, met her husband, Cash Warren, on the set of Fantastic Four .

Cash Warren was certainly unknown to the general public, but he was still an assistant producer of the film.

Likewise, model / actress Emily Ratajkowski married a total stranger to the general public.

So if you want to seduce and date a pornstar, don’t be the fanboy .

The fan is a man obsessed with a person, he is the perfect example of the needy dude .

A fan is logically unattractive by nature, since he puts the girl on a pedestal.

So above all, don’t tell the porn actress in front of you that you’ve seen all her films, or that you love the scene where she sucks her “stepbrother”…

Also avoid complimenting her on her physique that she has already heard thousands of times (her buttocks, her breasts…).

If she’s a camgirl, she gets this kind of compliment every 2 minutes …

Giving her that kind of remarks would automatically put you in the same box as all of her fans , whom she sees as wallets on legs, nothing more.

4 / Get out of your head the idea of ​​sleeping with her quickly

Yes, if a girl does porn, she loves sex.

(Unless she’s doing it purely out of financial need, of course, but that’s not the point here.)

But who says she loves sex does not necessarily mean that she will jump on your tail from the first few minutes of your date.

And precisely, if you want at all costs to sleep with her quickly, you risk not seeing her for very long …

She fucks guys every time she goes to work. So there isn’t much use for a porn star to have sex with you quickly.

Your gender, even if it is of interesting size, is not a marketing argument that will make a porn actress want to date you.

Change your strategy, and on the contrary, show her that you don’t mind waiting a bit to sleep with her.

Well not too much either, because she might take it badly.

But adopting this tactic allows you to stand out from all the dalleux she is used to coming across.

5 / don’t expect to sleep with her like in porn

If you fantasize about a hot actress, it’s probably because you imagine yourself reproducing the same scenes, which you see in the pornos of the actress in question.

I’m sorry to disappoint you, but even with these women, porn isn’t reality

The porn is fictitious. The actors should follow the director’s directions, and so every position, every spanking, every moan, is written and staged.

In real life and in their privacy, porn stars do not fuck like in their movies .

So keep in mind that your upturned legs will probably be great, but they won’t be like in porn , don’t be disappointed.

Now you know how to date a porn star!

If you are lucky enough to meet one and seduce her, be aware that you are stepping foot in a world where traditional values ​​are being challenged.

Dating a porn star is not necessarily easy, it is often being a free couple .

You are going to have to accept the idea that she sleeps with other men for the needs of her job.

You will have to manage, the social pressure, but also the eyes of your friends and your family, on your relationship with a porn star.

Gentlemen, see you soon on www.leakedmag.com for new advices.

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